JanetChristyMy Mother-In-Law Filled In The Parenting Gaps Created By My Narcissistic MotherMy Mother-In-Law didn’t have to be a surrogate mother to me, but she did it anyway. (Part of Surrogate Mothers Who Saved My Life series)Apr 23, 20231Apr 23, 20231
JanetChristyEveryone Needs A StabilizerA stabilizer is something that holds another thing steady, keeps it in place. Stabilizers are an important part of many machines and…Mar 15, 2022Mar 15, 2022
JanetChristyAunts Can Make Great Surrogate Mothers (Part of Surrogate Mothers Who Saved My Life Series)Following is a surrogate mother excerpt from my book Torture or Nurture, A Tale of Growing Up. One of the main characters in the book…Apr 16, 2023Apr 16, 2023
JanetChristyMy Aunt Liked Me, My Narcissistic Mother Did Not (Part of Surrogate Mothers Who Saved My Life…When your mother is narcissistic it is nice to have surrogate mothers in the family. I was lucky that my aunt was willing to fill in some…Apr 9, 20231Apr 9, 20231
JanetChristyThe Boss Who Mothered Me (Part of Surrogate Mothers Who Saved My Life Series)She compensated for my covert narcissist mother and healed my wounds from a previous malignant narcissist boss.Apr 2, 2023Apr 2, 2023
JanetChristyThe Aunt Who Warmed My Frozen Heart (Part of Surrogate Mothers Who Saved My Life Series)My narcissistic mother was always cold. I never felt any warmth from her. However I always felt warm in the presence of my aunt.Mar 26, 2023Mar 26, 2023
JanetChristyMy Grandmother The Stereotype Defier (Part of Surrogate Mothers Who Saved My Life Series)My narcissistic mother detested my paternal grandmother so my grandmother must have been okay.Mar 19, 2023Mar 19, 2023
JanetChristyThe Teacher That Affirmed My Talent (Part of Surrogate Mothers Who Saved My Life Series)When Narcissistic Parents work to destroy the individuality and spirit of their children, a teacher can undo some of the damage.Mar 12, 20231Mar 12, 20231
JanetChristyThe Sisters Who Became My Surrogate Mothers (Part of Surrogate Mothers Who Saved My Life Series)Sometimes people sense that you are broken and step in to help. Sometimes people fill in gaps in your life. Sometimes they even act as…Mar 5, 20231Mar 5, 20231
JanetChristyJane, The Unexpected Surrogate Mother (Part of Surrogate Mothers Who Saved My Life Series)She probably rescued kittens. She was the classic secretary of the 1970s. She saw more than you would have suspected. She had an engaging…Feb 26, 20231Feb 26, 20231
JanetChristyMy Actual Mother Was My Grandmother (Part of Surrogate Mothers Who Saved My Life Series)Many Grandmothers serve as surrogate mothers to their grandchildren. Thank goodness my maternal grandmother was one of those since my birth…Feb 19, 2023Feb 19, 2023
JanetChristyMrs. Porter, Second Grade, Value Confirmed (Part of Surrogate Mothers Who Saved My Life Series)My first grade experience was not great. But my second grade experience was life changing.Feb 12, 20232Feb 12, 20232
JanetChristyThe Surrogate Mothers Who Saved My LifeWhen the woman who birthed you does not mother you it is important to have women that will act as surrogate mothers.Feb 8, 20231Feb 8, 20231