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Narcissists Need to be “Somebody”

Narcissists are not ever content with ordinary; they must be important, significant, relative and notable. They must be “somebody”.

4 min readMay 13, 2024

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Narcissists Need to be “Somebody”

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Narcissists Instilled In Me A Love / Hate Relationship with “SHOULD”

All my life I have been ruled by what I SHOULD do, say and be. I am certain that it was caused by narcissists.

5 min readMay 9, 2024

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Where Was God During My Abuse By Narcissists?

This article is based on my experience as a Christian and is not intended to convince anyone that my religion is best. If you believe in a…

6 min readMay 7, 2024

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Where Was God During My Abuse By Narcissists?

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12 Reasons Narcissists Insist That You Declare Your Love For Them?

And why do they make this demand when they have just done something horrible to you?

4 min readApr 25, 2024

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12 Reasons Narcissists Insist That You Declare Your Love For Them?

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Is Going No Contact From A Narcissist the Same As Flight?

Does it matter if it is?

6 min readApr 24, 2024

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Is Going No Contact From A Narcissist the Same As Flight?

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How My Narcissistic Ex-Husband Crushed My Spirit

When I think about things I felt and believed while I was married to my narcissistic husband for 15 years and for several years after I…

4 min readApr 15, 2024

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How My Narcissistic Ex-Husband Crushed My Spirit

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Narcissists Caused Me to Be Obsessed With Structure

Structure has always been my security blanket. When I don’t have it I spiral.

4 min readApr 11, 2024

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Narcissists Caused Me to Be Obsessed With Structure

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I am Narcissist Trained to Handle Storms; Not Prepared to Deal with Calm

Narcissists teach their abuse victims that chaos is normal.

4 min readMar 28, 2024

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I am Narcissist Trained to Handle Storms; Not Prepared to Deal with Calm

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Family Dinner in a Narcissistic Ruled Household Has Nothing to Do With Family

Love is not served with dinner when a narcissist is in charge.

6 min readMar 26, 2024

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Family Dinner in a Narcissistic Ruled Household Has Nothing to Do With Family

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Yes, I Tried to Manipulate Narcissists

I did it out of fear, need to survive and desire to minimize pain for me and others.

5 min readMar 21, 2024

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JanetChristy

JanetChristy

Writer, observer, narcissistic abuse survivor and a traditionalist thwarted by an internal rebel. Using my experiences to entertain, help and challenge others.

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